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We can choose to be present. We can choose to worry. Either way, we choose.

11/7/2025

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Colleagues,

The last three weeks have been crazy – Mara and Ranford were married on October 4, I was in San Francisco with my mom and oldest daughter Gwen from the 10th-18th, and then gave my first big keynote on the 21st!

There have been moments when I have been fully present, like when Mara and I walked down the aisle together. And there have been times when I haven’t been present – like watching the sunset at the beach and worrying about all the work not getting done.

Being present gives me energy and lifts my spirits. 

Worrying does the opposite.

So why do I sometimes choose to worry?

It is, after all, a choice. 

What will you choose today? This weekend?

Cheers!

Frederick
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When we focus on what was, we miss enjoying what is.

11/6/2025

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Colleagues,

As I write, I’m in San Francisco trying to help my 92-year-old mom. She’s still doing great, but we are working on getting me more integrated into her medical and financial processes so I can be there to help if/when needed.

I am so blessed that mom is still here, but watching her world get smaller, and her independence diminish has been very difficult.

It’s easy for me to get depressed about all the things she can’t do. But when I do that, I lose sight of what she can do. Like enjoying a butterscotch latte at Java Beach.
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Cheers!

​Frederick
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Three keys to effective delegation

11/5/2025

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Colleagues,

Here’s another takeaway from this week’s episode on The Assistant Principal Podcast featuring my coaching call Penny Connors:

Delegate wisely:
  • Remember, there are other heroes in your building in addition to you.
  • Lean on others’ strengths – people like doing things they are good at.
  • Intentionally provide stretch opportunities (with support) to grow people’s leadership capacity.

Also, if you are thinking about student travel, tune in to this webinar I did with our wonderful podcast partners at Kaleidoscope Adventures!

I’m happy to acknowledge Kaleidoscope Adventures as a sponsor of yesterday’s episode of The Assistant Principal Podcast! I appreciate their support and encourage you to connect with them if you are thinking about planning a school trip!
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Cheers!

​Frederick
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Align your support network with your journey

11/4/2025

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Colleagues,

In today’s episode of The Assistant Principal Podcast, I have a coaching call with Penny Connors, an aspiring leader currently working on her administrative licensure. At the end of the show, Penny shared her big takeaway: We need to embrace our own journeys and build a support network aligned with both where we are and where we want to go.

We dig into that more in the show, including a discussion on the four layers of support:
  • Your current leader (principal if you are an AP)
  • Peers
  • Your personal advocate and accountability partner
  • Your mentor

I hope you’ll tune in!

Thanks again to IXL for sponsoring today’s episode.
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Cheers!

​Frederick
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Just because we can measure something with more accuracy doesn’t mean we should

11/3/2025

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Colleagues,

This email from Seth Godin was so insightful. Seth points out that just because we can measure something with more accuracy doesn’t mean we should. Accuracy and usability are not the same thing.

Do we really need more data? Or do we just need to get better at using the data we have?

Cheers!

Frederick
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